Carl Jung once said,  “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life, and you will call it fate.”     Many women move through life feeling as though they are being carried by circumstances rather than consciously choosing their direction. Opportunities appear and disappear, relationships begin and end, and careers unfold in unexpected ways, and it can all feel like fate.  Yet often, what we call fate is simply unexamined patterns, unspoken desires, buried